Sunday, November 6, 2016

How Can Stopping, Looking and Listening Lead you to Life Changing Joy and Adventure? Here's How

I love looking at pictures like the one here from our church's annual pumpkin patch.   And every year, I wonder.  Why doesn’t it last?  Now, I’m not talking about the pumpkins.   Everyone knows that those don’t last.  They get stinky pretty quick.  

No.  I wonder.  Why, in so many, does the joy and possibility they had as children fade away?  So often, folks lose the wonder of those days.   Cynicism and disappointment capture their hearts.    They listen to voices inside them that lead to discouragement and doubt.     Lots of times, they just ignore it happening.  They make their lives busy.  They buy new things to fill the void.   They discover ways to avoid the truth they desperately need to see, a truth that if they saw it would set them free for joy and possibility again. 

But you have a choice.  You can discover the wonder again.   You can live a life full of more adventure, fulfillment, and purpose then you could have imagined.  And in this famous story of a man, who had lost his way, God shows you the way.   So listen and hear what God has to say.


Too often, you can lose touch.  You can lose touch with what truly matters.   You get trapped in a life that is so much less than what your life could be; what God created it to be.  But how do you break free?  How do you become open to receive all the joy and possibility life offers?  In this story, God shows you.   Such a life begins when you are willing to stop, to look and to listen.       

In this story, Moses is trapped in a sort of dead end.    He has lost his standing as a prince of Egypt.  He has lost connection with his people, the Israelites.    He has settled for a life in exile, helping his father in law tend the sheep.   But then Moses’ life changes forever.   He moves from utter obscurity to someone who literally changes human history.  He moves from dullness and mediocrity to a life filled with incredible challenge and possibility.  How did it happen?

It happened first because he simply stopped.    As Moses went through his day, he saw something he couldn’t explain, a bush that wouldn’t stop burning.   You see.  In the desert, if a brush fire begins, it ends pretty fast.   The desert simply doesn’t have the fuel to feed the fire.   So to see a fire that keeps going and going, a bush that continues to burn and burn, that doesn’t make any sense.   So what does Abraham do?  He stops.  Actually, he stops long enough to actually take a detour, to break his regular routine to check it out. 

Most human beings like to think of themselves as open-minded. They think.   If I get some new information that challenges what I believe, then sure, I’m open to change.   But here’s the problem.   When you get new information, information that contradicts what you think to be true, you usually don’t change your beliefs.   No, you just figure out a way to fit the new facts to the beliefs we already have.   You fit the facts to the frame, the grid you already have. 

Even scientists do this.    For centuries, scientists said that new advances come about because open-minded scientists revised their theories to fit new facts.   But about 40 years ago, a scientist and philosopher named Thomas Kuhn showed that to be completely wrong.   Scientists didn’t revise their theories to fit new facts.   No, they just fit the new facts into what they already thought.   So, how did advances happen?  They happened when no matter what the scientists did, the facts just didn’t fit. 

Then, what Kuhn called a paradigm shift happened.  The facts blew up the frame so completely that nothing but a new frame would work.  Even then, the change didn’t come easy.   For centuries, human beings said that the sun revolved around the earth, even when the facts said otherwise.  Even when Copernicus finally said what was obviously there, that the earth revolved around the sun, lots of folks still claimed he was wrong.

And if it happens in science, you can bet it happens in your life (Heck, it even happens in baseball).   Again and again, I see people stuck in dead end places because they refuse to change the frame.   They believe what they believe.  They think what they think, even when those thoughts and beliefs are not only wrong, but leading them to a life so much less than what life can be.   What changes that?  Change happens, if it happens, when life throws something at you so out of the box, so unexplainable, that it not only changes your frame.  It blows it up. 

Several years ago, I got hooked on this totally cool vampire series called The Passage Trilogy by the writer Justin Cronin.   And a few weeks ago, I picked up the final book in the series at the library. But as I read, I realized.  Something had changed.    The book had all these allusions to Christianity.   But none of that stuff had been in the earlier books at all.   I wondered.  What happened to this guy?   So I googled to find out.  

It turned out that up until a few years ago, Cronin had no room for God in his life.  He kind of believed in God, but it had no impact on his life.   Then something happened, something so out of the box, he can’t explain it to this day.   It all started when his wife went to grab a tissue for their daughter while she was driving her to camp.    When she did, the car swerved hitting a guardrail at top speed, a guardrail on a bridge with a 40 foot drop below.   But the guard rail held, and the car bounced back on the road, where another car rammed into it, spinning it out until as Cronin describes it:

Like a whale breaching the surface, it lifted off the roadway, turned belly-up, and crashed down onto its roof. The back half of the car compacted like an accordion: steel crushing, glass bursting, my daughter’s belongings—clothes, shoes, books, an expensive violin—exploding onto the highway.  Other cars whizzed past, narrowly missing them. A final jolt, the car rolled again, and it came to a halt, facing forward, resting on its wheels.

And in the midst of all that, with the car literally obliterated around them, Cronin’s wife and daughter did not have a scratch.   It made no sense.   As the EMT said, “Nobody walks away from this.”  But they did.   And his wife knew that a power beyond themselves had done it.  No other explanation worked.  Suddenly for his wife, and eventually for Justin, God became very, very real.   He and his wife began a search to connect to this God who had done the unexplainable in their lives.   They had nearly given up, finding no place where they could connect, when as he writes….In the end, as in the scriptures, it was a child who led us.  Their son, who they had sent to an Episcopal school, announced on the way home one day that he now believed in Jesus.   He asked.  Could we go to my school’s church some time?   And so they did.  Now Cronin, his wife and son worship each week in the pews of St. Stephen’s.   And Cronin’s life has changed forever, in a way more beautiful and wondrous then he could have dreamed.   But it only happened because he and wife stopped at their burning bush, at what they could not explain.  It only happen whey let their frames be blown up so they could see the world in a radically different and truer way. 

But people can make a different choice.   They can stay stuck in places that don’t fulfill but disappoint even destroy.  Why? It’s because at least they’re familiar.   As I heard one person put it.  “I don’t like where my life is, but at least here, I know all the names of the streets.”  But your life won’t change if you keep going as you are.  You have to be willing to stop, to take a detour, to turn to your own burning bush.  It may be your child asking you about Jesus.  It may be a setback or a disappointment.  It may be a yearning you can’t even define.  But whatever it is, guaranteed there’s a bush probably burning in your life right now.  Don’t ignore it.   Be willing to stop, to turn aside.  Look at your burning bush, whatever it might be, and let it change you as only it can.       

Now what changes once you’re there?   First, you’ll realize that the God you thought you knew, you don’t really know at all.   Moses knew about God before this day.  But at that bush, he began to know God.    And that is a very different thing.   He realized.  God was much bigger, much more mysterious and complex, than he had ever imagined.    I’ve heard folks say to me.  You know.  I don’t believe in God.   But when I find out what they mean by God, do you know what I realize?   I don’t believe in that God either.    In your journey with God, wherever you are, at the beginning or well along the way, God will always show you new things, if you’re willing to look and to listen. 

And God will not only show you new things about God but about you.   As Moses met God at that burning bush, he had some pretty set beliefs about himself.  If you read the story further. You’ll learn, Moses considered himself a failure.  He had a stutter.  He believed that problem defined him.   So when God called him to lead his people, he gave every excuse he could. But God hadn’t come just to blow up Moses’ frame about God.  He had come to blow up Moses’ frame about Moses.    And when God comes into your life, he will do the same.   God will shatter beliefs that have limited you.  He will heal wounds that have held you back.   He will open you to a peace and possibility in your life you would not have thought possible. 

But how does God come into your life? The burning bush tells you.   After all, who is actually speaking out of this bush?   The Bible says the angel of the Lord is speaking.  It’s as if this angel is God, yet God in a way that can come close that can become God’s intimate, real presence with you.   But who is this angel, an angel who gets worshipped like God, who speaks as if he is God?
Thousands of years later, the answer came when someone named Jesus said he spoke for God.    The religious leaders balked.  Jesus didn’t fit their frame.  They said, who are you telling us how God is?   We have Abraham as our ancestor.  And what did Jesus say.  He said   Before Abraham was, I am.  He was saying.  I’m the One who spoke out of the burning bush.  I am God come to be with you.    And when he laid that reality before them, that burning bush, they couldn’t believe it.  They encountered God, but because God didn’t fit their frame, they missed it completely.    Because Jesus wasn’t the God they wanted him to be, they missed the God who actually is.  

And this God in Jesus has not only come to you.  In Jesus, this God has died for you.  For you are so broken, so bound up that God had to die to heal you, to set you free.  But you are so infinitely loved that God was glad to die so that you might live.    And in the bread and cup of communion, this is who meets you.   Here, in this simple meal, God gives you his life and presence to make you a burning bush, a wondrous witness of what God can do.  And if that doesn’t make complete sense to you, it shouldn’t.   A God you could explain would not be God at all.

So what is your burning bush?  Is it an experience you can’t explain, a person whose faith you find inexplicable?  Is it the question of a child you can’t answer?  Is it the mystery of God's table prepared for you?  Whatever it is, stop, look, listen.  Let God change not only who you think God is.  Let God change who you think you are.        

             

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