Monday, January 30, 2017

The Three Lies That Create Your Fatal Flaw and the Truth that Frees You from It

It doesn’t matter where you live.  It doesn’t matter what type of government you have.   Every language, every culture, even every religion, can’t avoid it.  It’s literally everywhere. Wherever you find human beings, bad things happen.   You’ll find human beings doing awful things to themselves; doing awful things to others, and doing awful things to the world.  Now in some places the level of awfulness rises higher, but wherever you go, you’ll find awful things happening. 

And yes, I know awful things happen in nature generally.  Animals eat each other.  They fight.  But human beings do things other animals simply don’t.  They murder.  They go to war.  And deep within, human beings feel an alienation from themselves, from each other, from even the world around them that no other creature does.  Is this the way it’s supposed to be?  Or has something gone wrong with the human race?   Because if something has gone wrong, then that means, it can be corrected.  It can be made right again.

But if so, how did it go wrong to begin with?   How can it be made right?  In this story, one of the most tragic and famous in human history, God shows you the way.  Let’s listen and hear what God has to say. 


Human beings have a big problem, a fatal flaw.   And it clearly has nothing to do with environment or upbringing, because the flaw exists everywhere in everyone.   Yet if that’s the case, where did it come from?   Is it simply naturally who you are, the product of evolution?    If so, how do you overcome that?   How can you overcome something ingrained in you over millions of years?   

Yet if it’s natural, why do human beings fight against it so much?  Why does every human being have this urge to become something better than who they actually are?  It’s because, human beings know.  This is not the way it’s supposed to be.   You were created for something more, something better.  But if so, how did it go wrong?   How does it keep going wrong?  In the words you just heard, God gives you the answers.      

This story doesn’t simply tell the tale of how two people lost the life God intended for them.  It tells how every human being loses that life; how the same three lies that trapped Adam and Eve continue to trap us.    But in those lies also lies the truth, the truth that if you let it, will set you free.  
So what are these lies?   You find the first one right at the beginning in the half-truth of the serpent’s question.   The serpent asks, “Did God say, “You shall not eat from any tree in the garden?”    Now, why would the serpent ask that?   It’s obviously not true, and Eve calls the serpent on it immediately.   So why ask it?  It’s because the question creates an atmosphere.

You see. The Serpent asks this question as a sort of sarcastic joke.  Did God really say that you can’t eat from the trees of your own garden?   The serpent is making a joke at God’s expense, but why?   It’s not that the Serpent wants to needle God.   No, the Serpent wants to needle Eve, to lead her to doubt herself, to doubt what she knows to be true.   That’s what irony and sarcasm does.  They poke holes in things everyone assumes to be true.   And that can be a good thing.  That’s why the prophets used sarcasm. It’s why Jesus used it.   But it’s one thing to use sarcasm as a tool.  It’s entirely something else to make it how you live your life, to make it the air that you breathe so to speak. 
And that’s what the serpent is trying to do, to literally create an atmosphere of sarcasm to choke out the truth.  And that sort of lie continues to live to this day. 

For example, if you tell certain folks about your beliefs in the gospel or God or Jesus, they may respond something like this.  “Oh you really believe that, huh?  Ok, great, if that works for ya.”   But what are they really telling you with their polite sarcasm?   Sheesh, I thought that you were smarter than that, but if you’ve gotta have a superstitious crutch to get through life, cool.”    And what do you do?  You begin to doubt yourself, to feel the fool even.   But here’s the irony.  Their sarcasm isn’t an argument.   It’s an attitude.  “Surely, nobody with any intelligence could believe that.”   Even so that attitude with its knowingness, its false authority will shake your belief in ways no argument could.   Yet almost always, behind the attitude, no argument even exists.  There’s nothing at all but an attitude. 

That’s where the spirit of sarcasm always leads.  It leads to nothing.  What do I mean?   Well, what’s the point of seeing through something?   You see through it in order to see what’s on the other side.   I see through this window in order to see the patio, right?  But what if you see through everything?  What is there left to see?    Nothing.  It’s what Oscar Wilde meant when he said cynicism knows the price of everything but the value of nothing.   When you breathe this air, it leads to a hollowed out life.  Your sophistication just covers the fact that inside you there’s hardly anything real to be found.   Others can often see that, but you can’t.  Why?  Well, here’s the ultimate irony.  So focused you are on seeing through all the purported falseness around you, you miss the very thing you need to see the most.  You miss seeing yourself.  

And that lie just prepares the opening for the next one, which is more deadly still.   What belief does the serpent attack?  Does the serpent question God’s existence?  No   Does the serpent even question God’s power?  No.  The Serpent questions God’s goodness.   He tells Eve.  This God is holding out on you.  This God doesn’t want the best for you.  You can’t trust this God.    

And in this lie, lies the taproot of the human flaw, the fear that God can’t be trusted.   It’s the lie that afflicts everyone from the most rigidly religious to those who detest religion completely.  How is that?  Let’s say that you have some incredibly religious person, who strives desperately to live the most exemplary life possible.  And on the other hand, you have someone that runs away from belief in God, sees it as something that limits their life; that holds them back.  These two types usually hate each other.  But they both believe the same lie.  They both believe that God can’t be trusted.   They just respond to that lie in different ways.    One strives to run away from God, believing that nothing God says leads to anything good or fulfilling.   But the other tries to win God over with righteousness, so that when the time comes, God will have no excuse but to let him in.  So yes that person believes in God, but trust God?  No way.

And this is the lie that undermines everything.   Erik Erickson, the famous child psychologist once said that the main thing a child needs is not to be dropped.   He wasn’t simply talking about a physical danger.   He was talking about an existential one.   Children need to be able to trust the dominant figures if their lives.  If that trust isn’t there, it will undermine their entire life, every relationship they have. 

And that’s why the serpent attacks Eve there.   If the serpent can undermine her trust in God, everything else will follow.  

After all, what do you do when you no longer trust God?   You look to something or someone you think you can trust.   You turn to the final lie, to the lie of the tree.   Oh, you can’t trust God, but this tree, God created, the Serpent says.  That you can trust.  That will give you what you really need. 
Why did God make a tree the big danger in the garden?   Why didn’t God say?  If you lie or cheat or kill, then you die.  Wouldn’t that make more sense?  No.  Because then you would think that the essence of your brokenness is breaking a rule, doing bad things.  But the essence of your brokenness isn’t a broken rule.  It’s a broken belief.

God picks a tree because a tree, well, a tree is so innocent.  And ultimately, it’s not the tree that destroys what Adam and Eve have.   It’s what they believe about the tree, what they believe it can do for them.   And that’s the essence of everyone’s brokenness, of the evil that infects the human race. 
What draws you away from God usually isn’t a bad thing, it’s a good thing that you make into an ultimate thing.  And when that happens, it opens you and this world to all sorts of awfulness.   For example, having pride in your ethnic heritage can be a good thing.  But when it becomes the source of all your meaning, where you put your ultimate trust, You get racism.  You get genocide.    

Is there anything wrong with making money?  No.  But if you make making money your source of security and meaning, ll sorts of ugliness happens.   Is there anything wrong with loving your spouse or your kids? No.  But if you say that if my spouse doesn’t love me, or my kids fail, then I am nothing, then that is a prescription for pain and heartbreak for you and the people you love.    Most of the pain and devastation in your life in the end doesn’t come from you doing bad things.  It comes from the false beliefs you have about your good things, from looking to them to give you what only God can. 

And what do these lies do for Adam and Eve?   They certainly don’t make them more.  No, instead they become so much less.   They don’t only become alienated from God.  They become alienated from themselves and from each other.  The first thing that Adam and Eve do after the tree is they cover themselves.  They move from being naked and unashamed to being the exact opposite.   And when they hear God coming, they hide.   And when God asks them why, Adam says that they were afraid.   That is the first time that word appears in the Bible, and that it appears here tells you everything.   And out of that fear, Adam blames Eve, and Eve blames the Serpent.  And what is blaming but just another way to hide from yourself, from others, from God.    And from that day on, 
human beings have been hiding ever since.

But how do you escape?  How do you break free of the lies?  You look to the truth the lies tried to cover.  And to see that truth, God hasn’t just left you with this tree. God has given you another tree.  The stanza of a poem by the great poet, George Herbert, shows you that tree.   In his work called the Sacrifice, Herbert wrote these words.

O all ye who pass by, behold and see:
Man stole the fruit, but I must climb the tree;
The tree of life to all, but only me:
                                             Was ever grief like mine?

Who is saying these words?  Jesus is. 

O all ye who pass by, behold and see:
Man stole the fruit, but I must climb the tree;
The tree of life to all, but only me:
                                             Was ever grief like mine?


What breaks the hold of the serpent’s lies?  It’s that tree.  It’s seeing God in Jesus hanging on that tree at Golgotha.  In the face of that brutal reality, God nailed to a tree, sarcasm loses its voice.  At that tree, all doubts about God’s goodness and trustworthiness fall away.   After all, if Jesus didn’t walk away from you in the agony of the cross, then he never will.     In the face of that goodness, of that life given over for you, the lies get stripped away.    And in the truth of what that tree shows you, you will see the painful truth of your wrongness, but then you will see the beautiful truth of the dying yet undying love that has made you right.  And in that truth, you will see God’s goodness and God’s love.  You see the truth, the only truth that sets you free.   In the name of the God who loved you, who died for you, and who can do more in even the broken places of your life than you could ever ask or dream or imagine.  

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