Sunday, August 21, 2016

The Delusion that Infects us All and How to Become Free of It

Did you know that more Americans believe in the afterlife today than did 40 years ago?   People are looking to have a connection beyond themselves.   But are they finding what they are looking for?   If they were, wouldn’t we see people who are happier, more at peace, more full of love?  But when I look around, I don’t see that.  I see fear, anger; people who don’t seem very happy at all. 

Here we are in the richest society in human history, yet so many seem so unhappy.  Why is that?   It’s because we live in a culture caught in a delusion, a delusion that promises happiness and fulfillment that it can never provide.  In fact, it provides the exact opposite. 
What is this delusion, and more importantly, how do we free ourselves from it.  In this powerful prayer from, David, one of the Bible’s greatest figures, God shows us the way.  Let’s hear what God has to say.


No society in human history has had more luxury, more wealth than ours.   Yet people don’t seem to be content.   Lots of folks are more discontented than ever. Why is that?   In this passage, God shows us why.   Our discontent comes because too many trust in what cannot be trusted, rather in the One who can.   And they don’t see how utterly addictive and deadly their false trust is.  But in David’s actions, God shows us the path to freedom, a path out of the delusion that binds up our world. What is that delusion?    To see that, we need to understand first, what David does here, and more importantly, why David does it. 

If you read all the stories about King David in the Bible (and after Jesus himself, no one gets more attention than David.) one thing becomes clear.  David had one overriding desire for the people he led.   He yearned for them to experience the presence of God as intimately as he did.   That’s why the very first thing David does after he becomes king is to bring the Ark home.

Centuries before, God had told Moses to build this container, this Ark of the Covenant, to hold the Ten Commandments that God had given to Moses, to have it as a sign of God’s presence among them.  But by David’s day, the Ark had become more of a divine good luck charm, than anything else.   In fact the ark had ended up in a remote town on the outskirts of Israel.   That geographical distance said everything about the people’s relationship with God.   God had become remote, distant, more a boss or a lifeguard, than a friend or a lover.   You do what God says, sure.  You call upon God when you are in trouble, definitely.    But you’re not all that close. You don’t really have a relationship. 

A few weeks ago, I had a little daddy-cation.  My wife, Chantal, went, with our son, Patrick, to visit her parents in Canada.    And I liked having the time, just to do guy things, to eat food I shouldn’t eat, watch sports and Netflix to late in the night, but very soon it began to wear pretty thin.   I missed the companionship.  I missed my wife’s smile, my son’s exuberant play.   The house felt empty, even lifeless.  I missed them.  I really missed them.  I couldn’t wait for them to come home. But how sad it would have been, if that had not been the case?  It would have been painfully clear that whatever our marriage license said, whatever the names on my son’s birth certificate, the reality of our relationships had become something far different.   

That is exactly where Israel is.  God has been away so to speak, but the people of Israel have hardly missed him.  How can they? They hardly know him.   So, what does David do?  He brings God home, by bringing the ark home, to Jerusalem, the center of the nation.  In that act, David is declaring.   God can’t be somewhere over there.  You’ve got to have God close.  God has got to be personal or he’s nothing at all.    But David didn’t want to stop there.   He wanted God not just to be home.  He dreamed for God to have a home right in the midst of the people, a temple where God could become up close and personal. 

And now, decades later, at the very end of David’s life, it’s finally happening!  God is becoming real and personal.   But it’s not happening because of the temple.  That’s not built yet.  It’s happening because of what David does here to build the temple.

What does David do?   He empties his pockets.   He says, not only is the government going to give, I’m going to give.  In fact, I’m going to give everything, every ounce of gold and silver that I have. Now just to give perspective on what David gave.   A talent represented ten years wages for a worker, and David is giving thousands of talents.  In today’s dollars, he is giving billions and billions.   And David isn’t simply giving to a building. David is giving to a ministry.   The temple not only served as the center of worship, but as the center for care for the poor, for the widow, for the orphan.
And this act of radical generosity so blows away the people, that they start giving like never before.   Their giving, thousands and thousands of talents, means that a good bit of the entire nation’s economy is going to ministry, to worship of God and care for the poor.  

But more than what they give is what the Bible tells us about how they give.   It says that they gave freely and whole-heartedly.   Do you get what that means?  Their giving actually liberated them.  It freed them from some sort of bondage.    And this word whole-heartedly, literally is shalom-heartedly.    Shalom means a sense of utter fulfillment.  These people are giving out of a deep sense of joy, of satisfaction.    What has happened to them? David’s radical gift has broken the delusion that bound them, the same delusion that binds us.  In giving up their wealth, the Israelites had realized.   Wealth did not hold the meaning and security that they thought it did.   In fact, it promised security and meaning, but all it really gave them was the opposite, meaninglessness and insecurity.

The heart of the human problem comes down to this.   We trust in the wrong things to give us significance, and a lot of that wrong trust comes down to money.   Let’s say, you think that people liking you, approving of you gives you significance.  Well, money helps out with that.     Or let’s say, your significance comes from a sense of control, of safety.  Well, having money can seem to help with that too.     Heck, that’s why they call it financial security, right?

But don’t you see that’s actually a delusion.   Money can’t provide love.  Money can’t even provide security.   Can money stop cancer?  Can money stop divorce?    Money can’t really stop anything.   But because we think it can, because we buy into that delusion, money has power over us.   We don’t really have money.  Money has us. 

How much does money have us?  We spend more on our garbage bags, than 90 nations in our world spend on everything. We have twice as many malls as we do high schools.  And parents spend six hours shopping each week, not even counting on-line shopping.  And they spend 40 minutes playing with their kids. 

Our families are smaller today, but our houses are bigger.  So how do we pay for them?  We work more hours than anyone else.  so we get bigger houses, but we don’t spend much time in them, because we are working so hard to pay for them.   And even then, we still don’t have enough room for all our stuff.   So now we have 30,000 self- storage places where 40 years ago we almost had none.   Our households now contain and consume more stuff than every other household in history combined.  

And what has all our stuff gotten us.   More Americans declare bankruptcy every year than graduate from college.   And forget the financial bankruptcies, the family and relationship bankruptcies blow that away.   American couples talk to each other just 12 minutes each day.  And then because a lot of those minutes are fights, often over money, they work longer hours to avoid the drama.    And so the divorce rate has tripled in the last 50 years.   And teen suicide has tripled along with it.  Tens of millions take pills for anxiety or depression.   And with all our gadgets to save time, we have less time than ever.   We even sleep less, 20% less than people did a hundred years ago.

The more people fill their lives with things, the emptier they become.  "More than ever we have big houses and broken homes, high incomes and low morale (David Myers). We excel at making a living but we fail at making a life. We celebrate our prosperity but can’t find our purpose. We cherish our freedoms but we can’t find connection. In an age of plenty we are hungrier than ever."
Yet we still don’t get it.   Jesus talked about greed way more than he did adultery? Why?   Because you know if you’re committing adultery.   But if you’re caught up in greed, a lot of times you don’t.  

It’s like no one thinks they’re selfish.   But let me ask, if someone takes a group photo, where do you look first?  And how do you judge if the picture is good?  If you look good, right? In fact, if you look bad, don’t you want to take another?   And so it is with greed.   If you don’t think you’re caught up in greed, it’s guaranteed that you are.  That’s how you can live in the most affluent society in human history, and still complain you don’t have enough. 

But on that day, when David emptied his back account, his radical gift freed his people from that.  Instead of hoarding their money or spending it on themselves, they gave it away to glorify God, to care for the poor.  Money became just money, so God could finally become God.   

But how do you and I become free?   Our wealth makes it even harder.  That’s why the wealthier people become, generally, the stingier and more selfish they get.   That’s how powerfully wealth enslaves you.   So how do you break free?

The answer lies in a question.  Why did David, who dreamed of this temple, even funded it, never build it?   God told him not to.   God said.  You’re a man of war, and I need a man of peace to build this temple.   I need this temple to point to a time when wars will cease, when my peace, my shalom, will fill the entire world.   And so God said to David:  When your days are fulfilled to go to be with your ancestors, I will raise up your offspring after you, one of your own sons, and I will establish his kingdom. He shall build a house for me, and I will establish his throne forever. I will be a father to him, and he shall be a son to me. I will not take my steadfast love from him…but I will confirm him in my house and in my kingdom forever, and his throne shall be established forever. (1 Chronicles 17)

Now David thought this had to be Solomon.  And Solomon did build a temple, a house for God.  But Solomon’s kingdom did not last forever.   It lasted a few centuries.  So who is God talking about?  God is talking about a Son to come, who will call God his father, whose kingdom will last forever, who not only will build a temple.  He will become the temple. 

When Jesus was beginning his ministry, he said something strange.  Standing in front of the temple in Jerusalem, he said.   This temple will be destroyed, and in three days, I will raise it up.   And people thought he was crazy.   This temple took decades to build, they said, and you’ll build it again in 3 days?  But Jesus wasn’t talking about that temple.   He was talking about himself.   


What is a temple?   It’s a bridge between God and us.  In the temple, human beings encounter God up close and personal so they can know God not as a boss but as a lover, as a friend.  And, in Jesus, God was giving the ultimate temple, the ultimate bridge.    And to build this temple, God didn’t just empty his bank account, he emptied his life.   He became utterly poor, so that by his poverty you might become rich, rich in security, in peace, in fulfillment.   And as you grasp how radically, how infinitely, God has given everything for you, everything, you’ll realize you don’t need money for security or safety or approval or fulfillment.  You already have all that and more in the God who has radically given it all up for you.    And as you let the reality of that radical gift live in you, it will shatter the delusion that money has.  And you will give to glorify God, to care for the poor.   You will give so radically, so generously that it will stun you.  But you’ll give it freely because you have become free, free so that money can be just be money, and God can finally be God.        

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